i get this question a lot. “what if i tell my friend that my feelings are deeper?” “what if i ask her out and she says no?” “what if i lose the friendship?” my answer: so what if you do? sharideth, you are an insensitive and terrible person. i hope you burn to death. whatever. […]
so yesterday one of my dumb twitter twaddle lines struck a nerve. apparently an exposed nerve that was stabbed and set on fire. #WhyDoFemales Always fall for the bad guys and friend zone the good guys? i’ve written about how to get out of the friend zone here and here, but realized i haven’t much […]
Dear Sharideth, So I’ve got a situation….there’s this boy (as there is in any situation!). We’ve known each other for about a year now, and for a couple of months we’ve been spending quite a bit of time together, heaps of texting (mostly initiated by him), and more and more one on one time recently. […]
i talk a lot about relationships here on my little blog thing. obviously. but today, i’m not gonna. you are. but not about romantic relationships. you’re going to talk about friendships. ahhhh, fwends… my cousin has been in town for a few days and she’s probably the closest thing i have to a best friend. […]
Dear Sharideth, I need some help… I was dating a man for 6 months, my first ever relationship, he broke it off with me as he said I needed to date someone closer to my own age who can fulfill my dreams. I get the words but I still don’t really understand why he did […]
today’s “dear sharideth” required some help. i get a lot of questions about what to do in certain situations, but this one is a little different. it’s more. so i asked a friend who’s been there done that to respond to this one. it will be a two parter with my input happening tomorrow, because […]
so the video i posted on friday kinda hit a nerve with a lot of yous guys and dolls. i got a tweet asking about me weighing in on the comments and honestly, i chose not to on friday. sometimes i feel like if i start commenting, other people will stop and the conversation got […]
Dear Sharideth, The problem. Female friend: divorced and ready to move on. Male acquaintance of hers: Was married, wife died roughly a year ago. In the past these two were great friends, close enough to lean on each other when support was needed. This, unfortunately, turned into a bit of a fling. My friend deliberately […]
okay so it’s not really a letter. it’s a single question. but it got asked, so i’m going to answer it. How the heck do you ask a close friend of 11 years out on a date? Serious question…~Brian of Comment Fame here’s my serious answer, Famous Brian. you just ask. if you have known […]
edited for length… Dear Sharideth My boyfriend and I are in a committed relationship. I thought it was going well. A couple of months ago he went to a party without me and I asked why he didn’t ask me to go along. He said he didn’t want me to feel awkward because his ex-girlfriend […]
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