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yes. anything.
i could put some rules on it, but you people would just break them anyway.
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What did I ask you last time?
Why do guys just look… or blatently gawk, at women but never approach them or start a conversation? Additionally, what effect (if any) does this have on the women they’re doing this to?
Mostly because we’re all a bunch of pansies.
Simple, men either just like looking (lust) or they fear rejection.
I know plenty of guys who gawk (or something more subtle) that do approach women… but they might look at ten women and start a conversation with one. There is only so much time in the day and even though you get used to getting shot down it still takes emotional energy and there is only so much to go around. I hope this anecdotal experience is useful to you. As to the effect… well, I’m not a woman, so I just couldn’t say.
I have noticed that women like to say something to their friends about a guy, while the guy is just within ear shot. (I’ve had this happen to me a lot). To me this seems to indicate that they wanted the guy to hear it, but the strange part is that they always deny it when you confront them about what they said. Why do women bluntly lie like that? Is it a test or something?
What is your favorite flavor of Jones soda?
What horrors would await us in a world without beards?
Betty Boop. Hot or Not?
You know I didn’t think I would have a question… but I do. Have you (as a girl) ever given a boy the silent treatment? Did you (after enough time had passed) feel that this was effective or appropriate (or perhaps both)?
What advice would you give to a couple to help them prepare for marriage?
How do you do a break-up right? Would love a post!
Is it kosher to say these things to guys?
“I don’t want to date you so quit looking at me like I’m a cream-filled chocolate cupcake.”
“I really think you’re cool, but you’re wearing a wedding ring and never mention your wife and I’m wondering if your intentions in chatting me up every time you see me are above-board.”
“You are an amazing barista and cuter than all the Little Rascals combined. We should hang out.”
I want to say these things, but I don’t have the guts to. Is the fallout worth the moment?
Those sound like perfectly acceptable things to say to a guy. If only communication were so clear more often…
Really? Hmmmm….
I might replace “cream-filled chocolate cupcake” with “bacon-wrapped tri-tip,” if you wanted to be a little more clear– but other than that… totally fine. I would be shocked to hear any of these things from a woman. Shocked is not necessarily bad– sometimes not even a little.
I give the “cream-filled cupcake” line two thumbs up.
What is you favorite childhood memory ….or funniest?
where do all the nice (but not boring) guys hang out? (don’t say the gym, the library, or cafes)
answer to this one is underway on this post: