this is going to be short for a couple of reasons.
1. there’s just not much to say about this topic.
2. i’m exhausted and pretty much want to punch the internet.
guys, if you meet a girl and you want to tell me all about her and you lead with “she’s got this temper.” or “she’s got more issues than National Geographic, but…” or “she’s still kind of seeing someone else.” or anything of the sort…
you’re an idiot.
if you are making excuses for her before the relationship even starts, you deserve whatever you get. is she really that hot? is there not a girl out there who lights your roman candle just as much but isn’t straight up poison?
answer: yes. there is.
but if it’s the hot mess that attracts you, you, my friend, are also a hot mess and are about to sprint willfully and joyfully into the drama pool.
if she needs saving, great, save her, but don’t date her. she’s going to need time to find her own feet otherwise she will just become dependent on you and end up making herself your victim whether you actually do her harm or not. it’s crazy town. i know.
she’s one of those girls who is only capable of making bad decisions because her entire world view stops at the end her own nose. blergh. terrible.
after a while you end up divorced, with 8 kids and a new found love for Ed Hardy.
never lead with drama. it always ends badly.
ever wanted to date a girl you had to make excuses for? tell us that story. seriously.
ladies, don’t think you’re off the hook. ever want to date the bad boy you knew was terrible for you?