guys…this isn’t hard. there’s no mystery here. stop trying to decipher clues. i really don’t care if she twirls her hair or touches your arm or gives you a full frontal hug every time she sees you.
it doesn’t mean she’ll date you. these are girls we’re talking about. they will send all the right signals then shut you down like the NBA.
wanna know if she’s interested?
ask her out.
you will have your answer immediately. she will say yes or no. bandaid. ripped. off. no agonizing. no guessing. NO FEAR.
but don’t be shocked by a “no”. how much she flirts means nothing. she could be just giving herself the equivalent of a pep talk by getting your attention. awful of her? yes. but don’t judge her too harshly. some girls don’t even know they do it.
there is no reason to beat your head against the wall waiting for the green light that rarely ever comes. don’t get so emotionally invested with the guessing and pining that you have a hard time moving on from a relationship that never was.
have more respect for yourself than that.
the less you wallow and the more decisively you act, the more women will begin to view you as the alpha male you want to be.
if you get a “no”, fine. next! you’re not defeated, you’re free.
if you get a “yes”. suh-weet!
girls will constantly send mixed messages. the only way to really know if she’s into you, is to ask her out. man up. rip off the bandaid and hope you don’t get too much hair in it.
guys, think you can do that?
what scares you most about asking a girl out?
girls, is it intriguing to watch a guy you just rejected move on?