i met a friend for coffee this weekend and she was telling me about a new dating relationship she’s been in for the last couple of months. it’s mostly long distance, so they spend a lot of time talking. something i highly recommend couples learn how to do, btw.
if she doesn’t have an answer, they talk some more.
he also tells her something he learned about her.
do i need to say it again?
i kind of couldn’t wait for today to be able to share that little bit of dating brilliance with you. this is gold you can start cashing in on the the very first date.
i don’t know the guy. have never met him. but when i do meet him, i’m going to do as they say in the south and hug his neck.
disclaimer: girls, you are going to have to tread lightly if you want to initiate this. a guy might feel put on the spot. i know you’d love for him to come right out and ask you this; you’re (we’re) built that way. but a guy might feel like you’ve sprung a pop quiz on him that he didn’t study for. just fair warning.
what do y’all think about this? married folk, do you think this could translate to your relationship?