My cousin backed out of her wedding less than a week before go time. While less than fun, we figured it was better than a week after.
Fast forward a year.
I get an email that she’s getting married [the next day to a different guy]*, and would I like to come to the wedding?
Is this headed anywhere good?
*bracketed info was inserted due to clarification exchange*
is it heading anywhere good? to be honest, i have no idea. the last minute wedding invitation, via email, the day before does make my Spidey senses tingle though. it makes this feel not well thought out and impulsive. two things that top my list of bad ideas when getting married.
couple that with her pulling a runaway bride, then jumping into another wedding a year later and it sounds like your cousin makes emotionally based decisions and runs on whatever seems best for her at any given moment. that’s not encouraging. but you know her better. i’m willing to be wrong. even hoping for it.
you are right about it being better to end the wedding the week before instead of the week after though. that could show some courage.
but i can’t help but think her first fiance may have dodged a .35 caliber round.
all you can do is wait and see. the deed is done. the best advice i can give you is to not expend a whole lot of energy worrying about it, until if or when there is something tangible to worry about.
oh so sincerely,
okay, my darlings. what do you think about this?