“but the title says this is about flirting!?!”
i know what it says. i wrote it. duh.
flirting is not just for the singles of the world. flirting with anyone that strikes your fancy is just for the singles of the world.
married couples should flirt with each other. often. forever. outrageously.
i think married couples get a little too comfortable sometimes. the commitment is made and everyone relaxes. we start to forget how fun it was to try and impress or turn on the object of our affection. shame on us.
flirting is a blast. it’s a great way to let your spouse know you still wanna get all up ons. it can also be a bit startling. which can be totally hawt. catching your spouse off guard with a little “hey sexy” can fire off sparks.
remember what those butterflies in the stomach felt like? mmmmm me too. love that. it’s not impossible to still get that feeling even though you’re married. you just have to be willing to stay on top of the flirting. and why wouldn’t you? it’s totally fun.
and stop feeling silly about it. you’ll just talk yourself out of it. flirting keeps things fresh. it keeps things spontaneous. it keeps things from going stale by introducing an unpredictable element.
but danger Will Robinson! grabbing your wife’s butt while she’s washing the dishes, is not flirting. that’s groping. totally different blog. snatching her off her feet and into your lap when she walks by…now that’s flirting.
random touches, long looks, hitting on her in the grocery store, complimenting her in public…all excellent flirting techniques.
ladies, anything that involves stroking his ego either tangibly or intangibly will work just fine. and you can pretty much grab his butt any time and he won’t mind.
think about it. go back to a time when flirting was your stock and trade and start pulling those tricks on your spouse.
you have your orders. so let the games begin.
what is your favorite flirting technique?