asking a girl out is terrifying. i get that. but it’s not fatal. no, seriously. i promise. with all the technology available to day, there’s about a zillion ways to make your move. but, in my book, there are still only two ways that don’t make you look like a jerk or a coward.
1. call her
2. ask her in person
don’t send her a text message, post a note on her facebook wall, or tweet her.
make freaking contact. it says something about you when you can speak. use your words and your inside voice. deep breaths and a lozenge. whatever.
she’s going to respect the gesture and frankly, (girls, correct if i’m wrong) you’re more likely to get a yes. you manned up, she’ll take the free meal. done.
question for girls:
what is the worst way some guy asked you out?
question for guys:
what’s your best success story when it comes to asking a girl out?